Men and women are the same on some issues and drastically different on others. Mark McIlroy 18.01.2026 Some of the feminists tried to say that men and women are the same. However they're not, on some issues men and women are drastically different. Being the same, some men and women want to be single, while some men and women want to raise a family. Being different, men process hurt by staying active, while women process hurt by talking.